Because size doesn’t need to limit you. The truth is that size does matter. There’s no way around it. It matters because different sizes require different maneuvers. But a partner with a small penisdoesn’t have to mean small on pleasure. It’s all about angle and positioning. Because your G-spot is located a few inches inside the vagina, it means that a penis of any size will be able to stimulate it when you’re in the right position.
Sarah Forbes, author of Sex in the Museum and curator of The Museum of Sex in New York City for 12 years, says science is the best sex instructor. “The female rests on her arms, arches her back toward the floor, and raises her hips (think cat pose with your arms bent). Across the animal kingdom this is seen as a sign of female ‘sexual receptivity’ and is nature’s way of putting the body into perfect alignment for penetration, ideally placing all the most sensitive parts of ones anatomy in line with their partner… this position not only looks hot, but is great for augmenting the depth of penetration,” says Forbes.
2. G-spot via doggy style
The G-spot is only two to three inches into the vagina on the upper wall, making it fairly easy to access. “Small penises sometimes have even better access to the G-spot than do larger penises. This is especially true for rear entry positions like doggy style,” says Dr. Kat Van Kirk, a licensed marriage and sex therapist.
3. Use props that position you both at a better angle
“Whether it’s a bed or bench that allows you to get a better angle, learn to use the resources you have. You shouldn’t have any problems getting into positions with a smaller member,” says Dr. Kat. This also includes pillows under the hips, and sex furniture like ramps and wedges.
Spooning maximizes intimacy and comfort, but it’s also a great sex position for a whole other reason. “This is another great position that will allow you both to have full body access, while it allows him to control depth, pressure and rhythm,” says Dr. Kat. Sounds like a win-win.
5. Cowgirl and reverse cowgirl
For those unfamiliar, cowgirl is a position where the woman straddles the man and rides him, like a cowboy might ride a horse. Reverse is the same, but with her facing the opposite direction, away from her partner. You’re in control in these positions, and either one is great for access and penetration.
An extension of reverse cowgirl, this involves straddling in that same position, except she lays all the way down and rests on his legs. It’s called the x-rated position because you make an X. It’s also sort of like 69, except other parts are involved.
Shake up missionary by clenching your legs and him spreading his. He gets maximum depth and you tighten your vagina.